My wife wants to leave me - one of the worst things to ever enter a man's mind. Has she come out and told you this? Or do you have a feeling that she does? Either way, the only thing that matters is that you do what you can to get her to stay. Obviously, you can't force her to stay. Never, EVER beg her to stay. That will only bring the situation to a whole new level - much worse than it is right now. So, what CAN you do?
You can try to talk to her. I said try, because right now you probably have no idea what to say - where to even begin. Ask her why she wants to leave. There are many reasons a woman would want to leave a marriage, but most are empty excuses.
My wife wants to leave me - does she REALLY want to leave? Or is there an underlying problem that she's not telling you. She could be afraid or embarrassed, and not know HOW to tell you. If that's the case, then saying she wants to leave would be her easiest option.
Your wife could come up with millions of excuses - the most common ones are: she doesn't feel the same way she used to - she's tired of being stuck, and that she wants freedom - she needs space or time.
There are billions more. Most of the time, though, women don't actually want to leave. She might be saying that she does because she thinks it will get your attention - and it worked. Maybe she feels unwanted or unloved? Tell her that you love her and that you NEED her. SHOW her these things.
Has she been depressed about something lately? Is she gaining weight or is her hair getting gray? She could think that because of these changes, you might want to leave her for another younger, prettier, skinner girl.
Tell her that you will always love her, no matter what happens. Make her see that you really do care. Help her with things she's doing around the house. Compliment her on something - anything. Her hair, her clothes, etc.
Imagine yourself at a marriage counselor's office. What would they say when you tell them ' my wife wants to leave me - what can I do?' What would YOU say to someone else in this situation? Thinking of solutions from someone else's point of view works very well.
Go back to the time in your marriage when you noticed that things were getting different. You probably didn't pay any mind to it then, but there were probably signs of trouble before this.
Both of you are confused, and possibly angry now. If there is only one thing that you get from this article, let it be this -
Do NOT let yourself become depressed. It will be extremely easy to do, but it will only make it much easier for her to slip away. Don't sit and constantly think about how things can be different - 'if I only / if I did this or that / etc.' are the most devastating things to say to yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. There was a problem in the marriage between you AND your wife. It wasn't addressed by either of you, and now it has to be.
Because she told you (or you THINK) that she wants to leave, then there is a very good chance that you two will figure things out. If she REALLY wanted to leave, wouldn't she just pack up and go?
You may not believe it right now, but the two of you CAN be happy again in your marriage.
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